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On Free World, the author over a Behavior expressed by today's mothers, which is observed more often. It's about strollers that are open in the direction of travel and to see mother and child is no longer each other and watch. Instead, the mothers come forward-looking buggies as wheelbarrow before him, and both mother and baby looking in direction of travel. At first glance, this behavior may seem not so significant, upon closer look, however, the author finds evidence of the withering away of the mother instinct and destructive consequences for the child.
the wrong patch strollers are more than just a fad. They document the depletion of the maternal instinct. In this new way to transport children, shows any visible way, a social development that makes one think: it is the tearing of the bond between mother and child. They look at each other any more. To communicate is now one and the eye contact. Creates the refusal of the latter is not a kind of speechlessness, which we see later in the form of learning and behavioral difficulties?
What should learn to speak a child whose Mother looks at it a little? The first thing the baby in the weeks after birth is familiar, that's the face of the mother. This face is anchorage to explore from the beginning of the baby's eyes the world. Eyes and mouth are important. While the mother speaks, she looks at the child. As the child forms his first words, it looks to the mother. If the mother breast-feeding or feeding the child, she looks at it closely. The eye contact is infinitely more important for well-being and mental and physical development of the small system. But soon comes out of this mother and the child turns abruptly away from you, strapped it firmly on a seat and thus deprives the child is not only the freedom of movement (which is not would be necessary if the child was sitting addressed to her), but also interrupts the eye contact with the child - this most important of all bridges of intellectual and emotional exchange. The already meager amount of time for communicative togetherness of mother and child is still left is cut off by this strange baby carriage design even further.
(...) And like a child at TV takes it to a rapt expression, which is typical: closed, sullen, grumpy, anxious. Remarkably, the mothers not? Do they have the sensitivity to the needs of the infant for all lost?
(...) The child, dumb, and strapped on his seat, rolled in front in the confusing world of images, while the mother indulges his back behind their own thoughts, make phone calls or purchases. So they both lose the contact that is so necessary for the child to navigate this world.
Source: http://www.freiewelt.net
link to the full post on Free World: here
Do these mothers just pushed the button and her mother secretly delegated spiritual instincts and no one noticed it? To whom they have delegated their very own maternal instincts? As so often with the annoying things that women are the men? If these men also eventually blamed, though they have never even heard of it? Can a mother's instinct to be at all annoying and can be delegated?
Or it has other reasons? For example, gender mainstreaming. If this is already bearing fruit like this? The fact that women simply take their maternal instinct, since they are not women more. But what are they? Men? Go not only biologically, but could not care less gender in the world. In addition, there are no men in the gender ideology. So everything is equal, but who is now responsible for the maternal instinct?
It could also be quite different. So much so that these women are just prostitutes maintenance simple and even a very small spark have decency, so they the bellows (or baby?) Is not in the stroller can look into the eyes. Is also a very practical way, because then the prostitute is not distracted by their beautiful dreams. It floats on cloud nine namely because it by reference to a lifelong has money from a pension staatsfeministisch Paying ass now a wonderful, free life working on.